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Re: Unitarianism is a sad religion for people caught in the bear trap of 20/21st
[quote name="ndd"][quote name="Vested Id"]tury rationalism. My mother's uncle was one and it was only because he knew something was missing but as a child with asthma he bought wholeheartedly into the 50s cult of science, then later the 60s counterculture and 70s computer geek culture, none of which can accept anything as offensively popular I mean illogical as Christianity, try zen buddhism or taoism instead buddy. His wife's then his funeral were at his unitarian church - great place to meet failed writers.[/quote] One of the hardest parts of this process has been learning to not be an asshole. People are unpleasant, unattractive, dull, possessed of bad taste, and self-righteous to boot. Even when they're rich and gorgeous, they contrive to be unhappy, and/or judgmental dickheads, or worse, <i>patronizing</i>. But I've gotten less and less mileage out of writing people off for their immediately-obvious failings over the years; the situation has degenerated to the point where I can't even remember to hate everyone I have good reasons to hate. Awful but true: some of those pretentious and pompous failed writers and willful fedora-wearers are not actually thought-criminals. It's not necessary to agree with everything they say or to make them your excellent friends who deserve your sympathy for 100% of their foolish choices. It's also not necessary to punish them for the odious transgression of starting a book and failing to finish it. By the way, this is a theory I fomented right here on Clatorps. I've stopped condemning people to the infinite solitary darkness of their basements just because they read too many sci-fi paperbacks or wear 3X sweaters or interrupt me at dinner to speak a lot of nonsense about the gold standard. While I can't recommend this practice to anyone else - aside from being difficult, it's unlikely to buy you anything you want to have - I've found that I personally worry less about being hideous now that my standards of hideousness have become so relaxed. On a doctrinal note, Unitarianism is an outgrowth of Christianity and many members identify as Christian. [/quote]