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[quote name="sdroa jists"]http://www.mgtowforums.com/forums/marriage-sucks/6410-my-divorce.html [quote]My wife fell into a depression and somehow felt she wasn't 'worthy to be with me' or that it was my fault she wasn't happy. Apparently, emigrating, putting up with the mother-in-law and brother-in-law from hell, finding a well paying job and paying over 80% of all the bills wasn't enough to make cupcake happy. I guess I should've sold a kidney.... ... I now had to pay cupcake $500 a month and her health insurance until the divorce is finalised. She actually argued with the court officer saying that she needed more and her lawyer promised she was going to get more. Anyways, we are here at present day and I now have a replacement car and a new apartment. I was also smart enough not to retain a lawyer yet have one I pay for as and when I need her. If I retained one, then her lawyer can't talk to me and I have to pay to hear crap from him. Right now, I can give him crap for free and cupcake has to pay to hear it from him. Cupcake wants some small items of property from me and will not be pursuing alimony. And she's not pursuing alimony because she's being nice, it's because she wont receive any. I'm currently fighting with the only tool I have right now; I e-mail and harass her lawyer many times a day and her finances are hurting. Hurting real bad. Cupcake has no idea how to lower her standard of living based on her income. I do. So what did I learn from this...... I was only married 2 years, have no kids or mortgage and am so far down $15k. Think about that. $15k and my circumstances weren't even that bad. Not too mention my health over the past 9 months from the stress. AWALT. Or, more precisely, all women have the potential to be like that. Women feel something then make it reality. It's always, always, ALWAYS, about the money. EVERY SINGLE FUCKING TIME. So that's the bulk of my story. It should hopefully be over in 4-6 weeks then I can carry on with my life. I got off lucky compared to many other guys but I still got shafted.[/quote]