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[quote name="laudablepuss"][quote name="laudablepuss"]Dated a girl, let's call her Diane. She's a cute mouse of a girl, and it was the best first date ever. (No sex, best first date that I've had I mean.) After two dates and talking every day for a month, I was ready to call her my girlfriend. But nobody who says they are "looking for a relationship" online means that. Other than me, I mean. They mean "just dating" but they can't SAY that because if they SAY "just dating" that means "down to fuck" or some shit. *nods wisely* *shrugs carelessly* Whatever. Anyway, she gets quite distant for no apparent reason. So, I'm severely bummed out.[/quote] First paragraph explanation: she seemed really into me, and I into her, so I told her more or less that I wanted her to be mine. And she said she wasn't ready for commitment. And other anecdotal evidence suggests that this plays out all the time: guy falls a little to fast, girl is afraid to commit. It's odd, but it seems to be true. Second paragraph, what I said above. Sorry for this being a mess, I'll try to edit the next post for clarity and to make sure the information content is higher. :( [/quote]