WHAT THE FUCK!?

This is everything that women complain about video games:

1) The assumption that no woman (and definitely no rape survivor, of any gender) is playing this game, and that all the players are gonna be hetero men who see Lara Croft as a virtual girlfriend and not associating with her or seeing her as their avatar

2) Men can’t possibly associate with a female character or imagine themselves as her. They can only see her as a potential object of affection, protection or lust.

3) Rape is a thing that happens to women and is really about the men and protecting us and feeling bad for us rather than a serious fucking traumatic event!

4) That there’s “beauty and vulnerability” and “sexy” in an attempted rape, because again, this is not about Lara, this is about the hetero male player looking AT Lara, and the threat of rape hanging over her existing for THEM as part of some protection fantasy.

5) Rape is a way to notice Lara’s beauty and youth, which is so fucked up and plays into all sorts of fucked up stereotypes of what sexual assault is about I want to scream.

6) The threat of being sexually assaulted makes Lara more “human”, because we know female heroes who run around kicking ass without being raped are oh-so-inhuman. Heaven forbid we have a female hero who isn’t vulnerable or existing for men to protect.

7) “She literally goes from zero to hero… we’re sort of building her up and just when she gets confident, we break her down again” Rape as a way to tear down a woman who gets too confident, too powerful. No matter how strong a woman gets, there’s always the threat of rape to remind us that she’s just a woman right? That no matter what happens, she can be raped, she’s not that strong, she can never be that powerful.

And yes Crystal Dynamic released a damage control statement but it really doesn’t say anything contrary except that it makes it more apparent the interviewed guy spoke out of school more than said anything that wasn’t true (or what the Studio intended.)

I guess we’ll find out if they’re trying to split hairs and claim “oh she’s totally not being threatened with rape in that scene” or the guy interviewed really was saying something totally untrue. But lots of male heroes are forced to take a human life without being threatened with rape, so that is no excuse to have that threatened. (Also that was the Executive Director who was interviewed, do we really believe he was THAT far off about what was being talked about behind the scenes?)

I really think the logic goes “it’s a beautiful woman captured and beaten down, what else would a villain do to such a woman but rape her?” and it’s just seen as if this thing that would just “naturally” happen. (Victim blaming stuff goes the same way, after all, wouldn’t a guy just rape a beautiful woman who is drunk? Or was wearing XYZ clothes?)

This thing reminds me of a Resident Evil 4 thread I saw on a gaming board where the male fans were talking about the period of the game where Ashley is still captured and talking about whether or not she was raped before Leon rescues her, and they all pretty much agreed she must have been, because after all, what else would you do to a pretty girl if you have her captured?

And it’s just… rape as a natural thing that happens to women who are captured (and of course not to men, nobody wondered if during the periods where Leon is unconscious, anybody raped him, which erases male rape survivors also), rape as being about attractiveness, and that rape was so distant to these people discussing it that it was like discussing whether or not she was tied up with ropes.

It really disgusts me. As a gamer, as a woman and as a rape survivor, how rape is seen as this thing to happen to female characters that is really about eliciting a response from male characters or presumed-to-be-male-gamers, how a word like “sexy” is used in that context, how rape is just this thing women have to deal with, and of course that any men playing the game couldn’t possibly be a rape survivor themselves (and a male character could never be at threat of being raped.)

This is what people mean by “rape culture” and I want it gone in my video games.

(And as a clarification to ward off the inevitable comment, I’m not saying “rape can never be used in fiction”, notice that my critique is HOW it’s being used, and the thinking behind it, and the assumption of who the audience is and how the female heroine is expected to be viewed.)

Edit: seekingwillow makes a great point in her post: that it isn’t just assuming the audience are hetero men, but that hetero men can’t possibly see a female hero as even a potential partner or equal, but as somebody to be protected, somebody who isn’t a threat to them.