blackwater wrote:

If you wanted to get a job, you'd go to a jobs website, right?

Some people have gotten jobs by riding in a taxicab and having a conversation with someone who ended up hiring them. Some people have gotten jobs by asking their parents, who happened to be in business. Some people have gotten jobs by being in a fraternity and getting hooked up by their frat brothers. Some people have... you get the picture.

If you were in one of those scenarios, YOU WOULD FUCKING KNOW IT ALREADY. And not be asking the question "how do I get a job"? So don't spend your days riding around in taxicabs because that one guy got hooked up with his Goldman Sachs career that way. Just go on a jobs board with everyone else.

It's the same way with meeting women. If your social circle included a lot of women, or you actually liked an activity that women liked, you would know it already and not be asking how to meet women. The fact that you have to ask the question already supplies the answer: you meet women through all the standard ways people came up with for single guys to meet women, like dating sites, group dates, etc. Trying to say hi to someone driving past in a car ain't gonna work, chief. Pretending to be interested in volunteering or a church group won't work, unless you actually are interested in those things (you're not).