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by laudablepuss 01/01/2020, 10:59am PST |
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Here's an abbreviated version of events. I hate to ask for help but if anyone has anything to give, I'd be grateful.
I still just don't know what I'm doing. I can't stay at our old townhome. Been keeping a remembrance journal of her and petting the dogs. I'm pretending at some level that I'm doing a difficult project or on a trip or something, and there will be an end at some point. But the truth is I won't get to the end, and I can never rejoin her.
The exciting crazy people who are her family in NC have all been contacted, and the drama that she deliberately absented herself from threatens to rear its head with the funeral arrangements. My legal situation is precarious because we were never married, but I could claim common law marriage. Fortunately, it seems to be moot: her Dad has given me total authority over arrangements. We'll see how it goes.
I really appreciate your kind comments here! You guys are pretty great. Even the troll isn't too bad, that's a tame jab. Thank you guys. |
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My girlfriend passed away this morning at 8:18 am by laudablepuss 12/29/2019, 11:41am PST
Take some some time and decompress by The Happiness Engine 12/29/2019, 12:18pm PST
Oh my god, that's horrible! by Mischief Maker 12/29/2019, 3:28pm PST
Re: My girlfriend passed away this morning at 8:18 am by Mysteriobama 12/29/2019, 5:51pm PST
I am so horrified to hear this news my friend. by Ice Cream Jonsey 12/29/2019, 8:00pm PST
My god by So incredibly awful 12/29/2019, 8:41pm PST
I’m sorry to hear that. Nothing to add but by blackwater 12/29/2019, 10:23pm PST
Re: My girlfriend passed away this morning at 8:18 am by Roop 12/30/2019, 3:42am PST
Re: My girlfriend passed away this morning at 8:18 am by laudablepuss 01/10/2020, 10:57pm PST
You're next NT by hahahahahaha 12/30/2019, 12:02pm PST
Wow, that's vile even for this place. NT by pinback 12/30/2019, 3:32pm PST
Strike one douchebag. NT by Dick Clownshoes 12/30/2019, 5:47pm PST
Re: You're next by Mysterio 12/31/2019, 4:54am PST
holy shit, laudable by kyrie derbingingle 12/30/2019, 10:01pm PST
What happened? NT by Jack Bauer 12/31/2019, 6:39am PST
The story plus a gofundme by laudablepuss 01/01/2020, 10:59am PST
Ah, shit, welcome to "The Club" by The Happiness Engine 01/02/2020, 7:38pm PST
Re: Ah, shit, welcome to "The Club" by laudablepuss 01/10/2020, 6:49pm PST
Just for historical purposes by laudablepuss 12/24/2020, 12:41am PST
Gofundme is over, thank you! by laudablepuss 01/10/2020, 6:47pm PST
Last update, sorry for this sad thread by laudablepuss 01/14/2020, 9:44pm PST
Hey hey by Ice Cream Jonsey 01/15/2020, 9:58am PST
Don't talk about her too much by Vested Id 01/15/2020, 3:50pm PST
thoughts one year later (long, rambling, awful) by laudablepuss 12/24/2020, 12:22am PST
This is a really good story. by Jerry Whorebach 12/24/2020, 6:29am PST
:) NT by laudablepuss 12/24/2020, 9:03am PST
Re: thoughts one year later (long, rambling, awful) by Mischief Maker 12/24/2020, 10:57am PST
I agree, I hope you will tell us more stories about her when you can, lp. NT by Horus Truthteller 12/24/2020, 12:23pm PST
This covers everything I wanted to say. by The Happiness Engine 12/27/2020, 12:24pm PST
so we're done with urgentcare for the night ourselves by Saltlord 12/24/2020, 5:15pm PST
I somehow missed this reply! by laudablepuss 09/12/2021, 7:54am PDT
My attendance here is spotty, so I missed this before. by Entropy Stew 12/27/2020, 1:00pm PST
I'm sorry, laudablepuss. by Fullofkittens 12/27/2020, 1:35pm PST
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