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by the-exercist 07/30/2020, 9:10pm PDT |
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No one is saying that you MUST have sex with trans people.
Or fat people
Or disabled people
Or dark-skinned black people
Or or or….
When activists say things like “It’s transphobic to say that you aren’t attracted to trans women,” that doesn’t translate to “You absolutely have to find a trans woman right now and bone down!” Instead, what they’re saying is “The only thing that all trans women have in common is that they’re trans women. They all look different, act different, think different, have different bodies and are at different stages of transition. There is no way that you find every single one of them unattractive. To specifically single them out as a group that you dislike is based on stereotypes and bias, not reality.”
It benefits all of us to take the time to examine our internal bias. Recognizing that prejudice and reflecting on it is a good thing. Maybe your sexual or romantic leanings will never change. That’s okay. But let’s not just brush past these things by saying “It’s a preference” when really: these thoughts are based on a culture of discrimination, stereotypes and bigotry. Labeling them as such is a reflection on that culture, not on your love life. |
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No one is saying that you MUST have sex with trans people. by the-exercist 07/30/2020, 9:10pm PDT 
It's like people who claim they aren't attracted to anyone under 14. by Jerry Whorebach 07/31/2020, 4:24am PDT
"Activists" say it's transphobic not to be attracted to trans ppl? Citation plz! NT by Masked Maker 07/31/2020, 6:34am PDT
Wait 9 months. The WaPo already says it's a crime if guys pretending to be women NT by aren't in Victoria's Secret ads. 07/31/2020, 12:39pm PDT
Not going to work this time by Vested Id 07/31/2020, 7:55pm PDT
Ahhh! Ahhhh! What are you AFRAID of V3sTed Id???? by Boymen and Girlboys 07/31/2020, 8:32pm PDT
WAit. I fucked that up. This is my handle, not the other one. NT by Boygals and Girlboyz 07/31/2020, 8:36pm PDT
I liked the last one here by Vested Id 07/31/2020, 8:50pm PDT
I don't need all the time, just cite one of the times, please. NT by Mischief MSNBC is owned by Comcast 07/31/2020, 8:49pm PDT
twitter.com/hashtag/CottonCeiling by Vested Id 07/31/2020, 8:56pm PDT
First time I ever heard of it. NT by MM 07/31/2020, 9:30pm PDT
Re: twitter.com/hashtag/CottonCeiling by Mysterio 07/31/2020, 10:09pm PDT
Re: No one is saying that you MUST have sex with trans people. by Ichabod 07/31/2020, 7:21pm PDT
It's great that attraction is the basis for equal rights and phobic response now by Saltlord 08/01/2020, 7:40am PDT
Seems like a flippant comment by one frustrated porn star seized on by the right by MM 08/01/2020, 7:52am PDT
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