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Re: Is this really rape? Really? by Commander Tansin A. Darcos 11/09/2018, 1:09pm PST
JCCO wrote:

"somehow" it turned into ANAL sex and of course IT HURT and he didn't stop quite soon enough. She ended the story by saying how she CONTINUED TO DATE THE BOY FOR MONTHS. Throughout the rest of the hour long radio show she referred to this as "her rape". Was that really rape?


The rule on rape used to be that she had up to intromission - the point she consented to let him inside her - too tell him to stop and after that it was not rape, even if she asked him to stop while he's been moving inside her for a while and doesn't, but now if she changes her mind he must stop within a reasonable period of her telling him to, which depends on what is happening. Normally this would mean a couple of seconds but if he is on the edge of orgasm he is allowed to finish. But if someone abused you and continued to hurt you after you told them to stop you should not continue seeing them. And if it actually was rape you definitely should break it off with them lest at some other time you have sex they rape you again. But if you continue to see the guy, date him, have sex, etc., you're clearly admitting it was something other than rape. Rough sex, maybe, but not rape.

Let's not trivialize rape by including that which is not in the definition. It is either penetration without consent or intercourse substantially continued after the person cries out for them to stop. If the guy takes 4-5 seconds instead of 1-2 to stop after you say so that's not really "rape" even if it's very inconsiderate. And if it actually was rape, you should break off further contact and certainly should not continue sexual activity with them. Continuing to have sex with someone absent threats or some other similar misconduct (blackmail, etc.) implies the sex has been consensual.
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Is this really rape? Really? by JCCO 10/04/2018, 9:17am PDT NEW
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        Jerry has never touched a woman who isn't his mother by Mysterio 10/07/2018, 4:18pm PDT NEW
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                Some girls like it when you keep going after they say no. NT by Mysterio 10/08/2018, 10:57am PDT NEW
                    Well, not a genuine "no" NT by Mysterio 10/08/2018, 10:58am PDT NEW
                    The 2nd wave feminists that revealed rape fantasies are all mythical. Pig. NT by Fucking Patriarchy 10/08/2018, 11:39am PDT NEW
                    I blame those girls for training us, who are no better than dogs, to rape others by Law & Order. 10/08/2018, 12:21pm PDT NEW
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    Re: Is this really rape? Really? by Commander Tansin A. Darcos 11/09/2018, 1:09pm PST NEW
        You are a monster! You will never speak for me or command me! NT by Ol Blue Hair 11/09/2018, 10:42pm PST NEW
 
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